Raise hands who’s married into a family enjoying an absolute dream relationship with your spouses mother, in fact send me a message of your story, it might help see who of you is the unicorn.
In Latvian, Sievas Māte and Vīra Māte means Wive’s mother and Husband’s mother, and Znots or Vedekla are words used for daughters husband, and husbands wife, consequently. Why in the world do Angel Leash of English Language Anguish speakers come up with twisting a marriage into a brother-sister relationship, delegating spouses role to a sibling, is a question in itself, as it is clearly wrong, as far as I know, my husband is not my brother in any way, and his mama sure is not treating me that way, and when she is, it means she’s attempting to exercise control over us as CHILDREN, and that is only causing herself to get further detached from our family as is.
If hearing the words Mother in Law would make you feel cozy, happy and in heavens, the online web search engines wouldn’t be full of these search words, popping up multiple family helplines, psychologist articles, and other therapist directories, attempting to explain Why mother in law hates YOU. Let’s look at my theory on the subject.
As an avid epigenetic researcher I like to dig into mtDNA studies since discovering this vital core of human evolution. Mitochondrial DNA is the DNA located in mitochondria, cellular organelles within eukaryotic cells that convert chemical energy from food into a form that cells can use, adenosine triphosphate. mtDNA is passed on from mother to daughter, and only daughters pass it on to their daughters. Practically speaking, women who have only sons are not furthering their ancestral lineage as the mtDNA they transfer to their sons, stays with them, and their sons activate the transfer of mtDNA of the female they bear daughters with, meaning the son is not continuing his mothers mitochondrial DNA evolution, or transfer, the son is continuing the lineage and genetic evolution of the maternal bloodline of the woman he chooses as his mate.
Think about it. Mothers that have sons and daughters are more likely to be the better mothers of husbands and mothers of wives, and grandmothers, loving and devoted, instead as this lovely grooms mamas behavior;
Women with daughters in theory should be more at ease through their menopausal years as their genetics is appeased, and since all things genetic evolution are an unconscious process to most humans, people engage in emotionalism and emotions are fleeting as the first falling snow, mtDNA is valid and lasting, that is exactly how we can trace maternal haplogroups back to 150 000 and 200 000 years, in fact the number of years is infinite as each mother had a mother. So women without daughters, contrary to crusader patriarchal beliefs, those are the most compromised in their genetics and character, and maybe, just maybe that’s why woman with only a son or few are the ones most proud, possessive and conflictual with the sons chosen mates to procreate with. Because these women have only mild mirrors of themselves in their life, they do not have a continuation, so they want to be close and on top of their sons, so enjoy what’s left of their lineage, as there wont be a repetition, as she did not get to birth a daughter to carry on her mtDNA information to the next generation, to further evolution of this particular maternal bloodline.
On the other hand, in spite of all the artificially injected ridicule about woman with many daughters, or women with only daughters, those women are the most peaceful psychologically, as their genetics is at ease, there’s no drive to go somewhere as their own DNA knows, the daughters carry them on through their children, and if a woman has many daughters, her chance of passing on her lineage is highest, as chances are one of them will have a daughter of her own.
The Jewish culture traces maternal lineage while the world since the beginning of Crusader Era has only destroyed the Matriarchal culture records, shunned femininity, destroyed social construct and turned common knowledge of Daughters importance into ridicule, and even criminalized and punished as murdering newborn baby girls, and often their mothers for not birthing a son, was common practice in the middle of the most insane overthrow of natural Matriarchal leadership by the Patriarchal wannabe’s. Hop a few centuries forward and you see the result in the world at large, mass destruction in all areas of life, major fake-everything from foods to wake and sleep cycles that are against human cardiac rhythms, to barren infertile lands, dying reefs, endangered and destroyed species across all flora and fauna categories, the Man’s world He so desired to Dominate against the very Synchronic Order of things in the Universe, creation of Paternal Hierarchy only causes destruction and it will only continue until the Return of The Queen via reclaiming of Matriarchal leadership and Matriarchal Organization of Social Construct.
While it is modernly assumed that kids inherit equal traits (including their IQ levels) from both parents, a genetic study was done which points out to the evidence that intelligence, particularly, is inherited from one parent, the mothers. Lets have a moment of silence for all the crusaders murdering millions of women and their daughters for ‘’not birthing sons’’ and being ”the witches”, approving the self-destructive moronity tendency of Y chromosome left unattended and with excessive power in their hands, male can only destroy humanity without female leadership, ancient scriptures and modern science shakes hands here agreeing on this fact.
Daughters and wives got to be encouraged to study mitochondrial DNA and grow in empowerment knowing they are the holy grail of human evolution and continued betterment of our species, as female is the womb and protector of all creation, and the Yang female chooses to mate with, is the one activating her genetic decisions and the information carried within the Mothers cellular information. We take the masculine energy implosion to create stronger bodies in our children, but we ourselves provide them with the immunity through the breastmilk that provided all necessary nutrients and cellular coding to create a shield of immunity that protects our child for life, maximizing the genetic potential expression of the child.
Teach your daughters to value themselves and the women around them, teach them the basic reality of human existence, instead of glitch of a passing dogmatic thinking in favor of appeasing whatever male imagination of being King, as all women are Queens, all of them, while there’s only a fraction of men who get to be the King Consort. And you know who they are, the virile, loyal, beastly strong gorgeous men with a ring on their finger, they are very married, and very desired by any woman sensing his pheromones being near him, it doesn’t matter his social status or earnings, you know a virile man with eyes closed, they radiate such magnetic pull, women can get dizzy around them, they’re the men we want to make babies with, because in their hands we are safe, and they are giving us the masculinity needed for proper gene formation of our offspring, it is a generous man, it is a healthy man with high testosterone that is most desired, and he is King, as there’s a thousand women who want to have babies from him, making another thousand men a Prince for life, as whatever their genetic expression making them in-virile, low in testosterone, and fully available to the public consequently, signals to a female brain, my eggs are safer elsewhere. It really is all about the eggs at the end. And we get our eggs from our Grand Mother in who’s womb they are formed in our mothers pregnancy. Read it again. Our eggs are formed in our Grand Mothers womb during Grand Mothers pregnancy with our Mother. That’s why the name Grand Mother, and a man who likes your grammy is sure to like you forever too, while a man shunning your grammy, well, is a male, not a man to begin with.
Choose your males and men wisely, and remember to treat yourself with dignity as a Daughter and future Mother yourself, you are responsible for what is now, remembering the past as only profound memories of the past and contemplations to it, create soul implosion activated ideas and visions for our futures, allowing to fully ground into the now, and follow thy decided road map to achieve what your particular ancestral commands require of you to accomplish through this incarnation.
I suggest using wording husbands mother in hostile situations as the erroneous incest-implying Mother in Law verbiage is meant to go away with the meltdown of Patriarchy implemented cyst-stems as is, from communism to surnames from the father, all of it is fake, and all of it is going away in this century.
Welcome to Transitional Years as Homo Sapiens transitions to Homo Sanctus and humanity goes through labor pains of birthing itself anew, you’ll see joy and you’ll see agony and confusion, I suggest being there for a young mother in labor to fully relate to what humanity is going through. And hey, there’s no epidural for Earth, all happens live, real time and raw, as the Earth sheds the layers of all falsities, so do the dishonorable elders who’ve betrayed the very Matriarchy birthing them into this world, all of them will perish, and daughters of today are meant to rebuild society and Y chromosome, healing it from its own undoing.
Males who become men and Kings are the males who honor the Female acknowledging the source and ground for all creation. Good mother of a husband is the one honoring the wife and Cosmic Mother of her son, anything else is betrayal of nature itself, and I suggest to simply leave it as it is, as a tight relationship between Husbands Mother and wife only causes increased risk of divorce while no or little relationship increases the longevity chances of the marriage, and I am confident it is the fact a mans Cosmic Mother is there to serve as emotional healer in his biological mothers passing, it naturally is not his wives place to be next to his biological mothers side, as their paths naturally go different directions. My own mother says she hopes she keeps her marbles in old age and gets herself involved in her sons life and marriage only upon request, and that is a sane female talking, as I was her daughter first, and she has another daughter after my baby brother, her DNA is at peace, she is a grammy now, and I wish her to be that good Vīra Māte to the female my brother chooses to bond his life with.
Lets close this article with listening to a divine song about Daughters;